About

Welcome to my home on the web. I am so thankful that you are here.

My name is Barbie (short for Barbara) and I live in Northern California.  First and foremost, I am a child of God and have been marked by the love of a relentless God who will never stop pursuing me. I live an imperfect life, but I know an absolutely perfect God. It is only by His grace that I am given the strength to accomplish all that I do each day.

I have been married 20+ years to an amazing man and we have four beautiful children and a son-in-love who pursue the Lord passionately in worship and prayer.  I have one grandson who is the light of my life.

This blog has gone through many changes over the eight years since I started writing. But there is one general theme that has stuck with me throughout all the changes — I need to embrace every day that God has given to me.

My husband and I have lived through some major obstacles and are still walking through some, but God has proven faithful.

If you were to sit across from me having coffee, or tea, or a soda, I would tell you that you are beautiful. I would share with you how much God loves you and how He has a good plan for your life, no matter the circumstances you are facing. I would tell you that there is nothing that will ever separate you from His love, and that His amazing grace is enough for today.

I am an artist, and in am privileged to be able to paint during corporate worship services. You can see some of my art here. I recently published my first book, Coffee Talk With Jesus, which are letters from God to His daughters. In this space you will find posts on faith, grace, hope, encouragement and just about anything that one can learn on their journey with the Lord.

Thank you for visiting and I hope you will come back soon!

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    tammy CARROLL
    May 19, 2011 at 8:10 pm

    Beautiful blog Barbie.  I am looking forward to getting to know you better and the awesome opportunity to pray with you for Emily.
    Tammy Carroll

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    tammy CARROLL
    May 19, 2011 at 8:11 pm

    Beautiful blog Barbie.  I look forward to getting to know you better and being able to pray with you for Emily.  BLESSINGS!  Tammy Carroll

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    Lisa
    June 24, 2011 at 7:15 am

    Blessed by your blog, blessed by you! You are an excellent writer, a hidden talent I didn’t know you had. I enjoy being on worship team  with you on Thursdays! You always have such great things to add and such a sweet heart for God. Thanks for taking the time to share your heart in your blog.
    Lisa

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    Barbie
    June 24, 2011 at 11:12 pm

    Thank you Lisa.  My heart has always been that the Lord would be glorified through my writing, and that others would be encouraged!  Thank you for reading!  I appreciate you too and count you a blessing in my life!

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    Rochelle Wilson
    July 31, 2011 at 8:38 am

    Great blog Barbie.  It’s so neat to see the journeys the Lord has taken us on since we met over 20 years ago.  I often think of you guys this time of year knowing you are celebrating another year of marriage, just like us!  Thanks for your encouragement on my blog.  I really appreciate the kind words. 🙂 
    Rochelle Wilson

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      Barbie
      August 1, 2011 at 1:37 am

      Thanks for stopping by Rochelle!  I think of you often.  Your girls have sure grown up! 

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    Anoesdelacourt
    August 8, 2011 at 7:06 pm

    A woman after my own heart…God, writing, equiping children (I lead Celebration Station…through the Celebrate Recovery Program)…

    I found your blog through 5 minutes of Faith… Looking forward to reading more.
    Anuschka

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      Barbie
      October 11, 2011 at 5:58 pm

      I apologize for not getting back to you sooner.  Thank you so much for stopping by my blog!

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    shari lynne
    October 25, 2011 at 11:07 pm

    Love you blog Barbie! 
    Blessings
    Shari

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    Linda
    November 3, 2011 at 9:35 am

    Barbie…you have a lovely family!  I enjoy your zest for the Lord…and for life.   You are right…everyday is a gift from the Lord.  I am glad we are blog friends.

    Linda @ Truthful Tidbits

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      Barbie
      November 3, 2011 at 10:38 pm

      Thank you Linda!

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    Cheryl Carroll, Sacramento, CA
    November 30, 2011 at 8:31 am

    Barbie, Hi! Nice to meet you. This is the first blog I’ve read or been compelled to follow and have been blessed already. I to share your compassion for the almighty King, the Lord Jesus Christ who pursued me and captured my heart. I’m so thankful for His unconditional love for me. I look forward to getting to know you better as you share what the Lord has laid on your heart and what He shares through you. God bless you and your lovely family Cheryl Carroll

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      Barbie
      November 30, 2011 at 9:38 pm

      Cheryl, thank you so much for stopping by and following. I look forward to getting to know you more through comments here.

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    Charina
    December 28, 2011 at 7:21 pm

    Hi Barbie. I found your blog from a link at A Blooming Spirit. So glad I found your space. looking forward to getting to know you and to more wonderful readings from your space.

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      Barbie
      January 8, 2012 at 7:59 pm

      So thankful you stopped by Charina.  I have loved getting to know you through your blog.

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    Sue Tornai
    January 6, 2012 at 5:49 pm

    Blessed by your blog. Thank you.

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      Barbie
      January 8, 2012 at 7:59 pm

      Thank you Sue!

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    Allison
    January 18, 2012 at 9:43 pm

    Just found you and your blog. How lovely! I linked up just in time with the Fresh Brewed Sunday. I love to meet other sisters in Christ! It sounds like we have alot in common. I look forward to getting to know you through the blogging world 🙂
    -Allison

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      Barbie
      January 19, 2012 at 9:31 am

      It’s nice to “meet” you Allison. Looking forward to getting to know you as well.

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    Jamie Joseph
    January 29, 2012 at 12:48 am

    Your blog is a blessing.  I am so grateful to have found it and look forward to visiting often for a cup of fresh brew! 🙂

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    Michele
    May 7, 2012 at 10:12 am

    Hello, I am stopping by from SITS Girls.  You have a wonderful site.  God bless you and your family.  

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    Joy Wombles
    May 20, 2012 at 5:22 pm

    I am praying for you this evening, that God will richly bless you with good health, and an abundance of peace and joy as you prepare for the days ahead.  I shall also pray for your friend Beth.  So very nice to have met another precious sister in Christ.

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    Barbie
    May 21, 2012 at 6:58 am

    Thank you so much Joy!

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    Cathy von Hassel-Dav
    June 6, 2012 at 7:09 pm

    Hi from a fellow North Carolina and sister in Christ. I have enjoyed reading your blog.

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    Ferly
    July 17, 2012 at 10:14 pm

    We have many things in common! A love for God, a heart for worship and a realization that God leaves gifts in and around for us to find. Love finding blogs like yours!

    Thanks for commenting on my feature at The Fruitful Home!

    ~ Ferly
    Gifts We Use {to grow, love and serve}

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      Barbie
      August 1, 2012 at 5:57 pm

      Thank you for visiting Ferly. Sorry it took me so long to comment back. I believe I am following your blog now 🙂

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    Barbara Cobham
    August 1, 2012 at 3:50 pm

    Hi Barbie. Just read your guest post on Unemployed Faith and wanted to encourage you for sharing with such honesty and openness. God bless and keep you. Praying for you today. 🙂

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      Barbie
      August 1, 2012 at 5:53 pm

      Thank you so much Barbara for your comment and encouragement. I appreciate you reading and stopping by here today.

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    Leslie
    October 19, 2012 at 7:15 am

    Did you attend the University of Alabama in the late 80s/early 90s?

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      Barbie
      November 7, 2012 at 12:04 am

      No! I was just graduating High School in the mid 80’s!

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    Jacomien Botes
    November 12, 2012 at 4:05 am

    I am going through a tough time at work.. I feel that my boss does not respect me and I cannot handle his anger outbursts. When it happens I feel numb and out of my body. For my work I had to travel for about 6 hours – plenty of time to cry my heart out. The night after all the tears I had a dream about God’s hidden treasures for us. In the dream I opened a box made out of tin. Inside was small papers with open spaces to fill in. I was very very excited and spoke to Jesus:. I told Him: “I know that this is from you – a gift for me!” I know that He absolutely loves me. I am a playtherapist and would like to have my own practise, but I am too afraid to take the financial risk to give up my work. Please pray for me for the right decision.

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      Barbie
      November 19, 2012 at 9:55 pm

      Jacemien, I am sorry for the delayed response. Thank you for sharing a bit of your struggle with me. I will be praying for you in your job situation. God knows the desires of your heart and I am praying that at the right time you will see your heart’s desire fulfilled.

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    Jane Graham
    January 4, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    Barbie,
    I love the new site!! You’ve been such a blessing to me already in our short friendship. Thank you for your unwavering heart to share God’s Word online and to transparently share your own faith journey. (…and thanks for linking up on Mondays at my site!) You are a gift to the blogging community!

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      Barbie
      January 5, 2013 at 1:10 am

      Thank you Jane! I am thankful for you too, my friend. So thankful that I stumbled upon your site. Looking forward to our journey together.

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    kaseyparr99
    April 12, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    Barbie,
    I wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your site. Thanks for the encouraging words, wisdom, God’s truth, and the week end brew. Count blessings, Kasey

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      Barbie
      April 13, 2013 at 9:51 am

      You’re welcome Kasey! Thankful to have you here!

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    Olivia Brant
    October 23, 2013 at 12:10 pm

    Hi, Barbie! I love our mutual friend, Ashley! She is so sweet! I noticed that we are also in the same (in)courage group! Friends, coffee, blogs and grace – what more can a girl ask for? 🙂 I look forward to looking around here and getting to know you better!

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    Michele
    December 20, 2013 at 2:41 pm

    Hi Barbie! I found your site through Bloglovin and I love it! Such an inspiration and so beautiful! I’m looking forward to visiting often! 🙂 Merry Christmas!!

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      Barbie
      December 29, 2013 at 10:05 pm

      Nice to meet you Michele! I hope you’ll visit again soon. I look forward to visiting your blog!

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    Elizabeth@BeautyObserved
    December 29, 2013 at 9:38 pm

    Hi, Barbie,

    Your children are beautiful!

    Are you still home schooling? This is my 18th year!

    I’m sure I will be back to visit often 🙂

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      Barbie
      December 29, 2013 at 10:04 pm

      Hi Elizabeth! Thank you. I am still homeschooling my 8th grade girl. However, we have mutually decided to put her back in school next year. We will both be a lot happier. It’s very hard to homeschool when you work full time and when all your children have ever known is public school. I successfully put two children through public school without incident so I know it can be done.

      I do have a 5th grade boy I am considering schooling. However, he has ADHD and is in speech therapy and I think he will get the help he needs if I leave him in school. Still praying about it.

      Thanks for stopping by and I hope you’ll return often.

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    Karin Madden
    January 3, 2014 at 12:12 pm

    Hi Barbie – What a beautiful family you have! I’m so happy to come over here from Beth’s place to meet you. This is a warm and inviting blog – I am happy to find it. I also homeschool my 6 kids (the oldest is 12). It’s quite an adventure. I see that you have a 5th grader in speech (I am a speech-language pathologist – worked mostly in rehab and hospitals); I hope it’s going well for your son! Many blessing to you, Barbie – and Happy New Year!

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      Barbie
      January 3, 2014 at 12:27 pm

      Thank you for stopping by Karin! I am currently homeschooling my 8th grade girl. It’s been a struggle to homeschool her these last two years as I work full time. All my children have ever known is public school. They’ve always done well. We will be putting her back in public school for high school. But, my 5th grade boy tells me he wants to be homeschool in at least 7th-8th grade. He’s doing much better with his stuttering. We will see what God has planned for his schooling. Blessings!

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    Cathy
    April 6, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    Hi Barbie, I just came across your Blog and it is full of so much encouragement! I look forward to getting to know you. I have been writing for a long time but have just joined the world of Blogging. I am praying for you as you are obedient to God in the stillness. He has great things ahead for you. Have a blessed day!

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    Susan Irene Fox
    June 19, 2014 at 6:18 pm

    Barbie, so glad I stopped by. I’ll be taking a sip of your Brew now that Heather brought me over to meet you. Blessings and prayers for your homeschooling efforts. I was an elementary teacher for over 20 years (public, Catholic, Christian and I homeschooled my nephew!) and I understand the commitment it takes.

    I look forward to getting to know you.

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      Barbie
      June 21, 2014 at 8:28 am

      Thank you for stopping by Susan! I look forward to getting to know you as well. Blessings!

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    Arabah Joy
    August 4, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    Hi Barbie, I’m visiting from The Loft Link up! It seems I have heard of your blog before, so it is nice to meet you and see your heart for Jesus! Praying the Lord uses your place here to point people to Jesus and be a light on the world wide web. Thank you so much for serving Jesus through your writing.

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    Leah Adams
    August 5, 2014 at 3:57 am

    What a beautiful page. I love your heart. I popped in from The Loft LinkUp. Looking forward to getting to know you!

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    Rebekah
    August 5, 2014 at 5:08 am

    Hi! Thanks so much for linking up at The Loft! That’s a beautiful picture of your kids – all 5 of them! 🙂 I’m so blessed to meet other Jesus-loving people on this journey. We use an online charter school for our kids, only because the laws in our state (PA) are so strict – so I can appreciate the time put in for homeschooling. Praying that God gives you the desires of your heart as you continue to follow Him! Hope to “see” you at The Loft again next week! 🙂

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    Kathy Schwanke
    August 5, 2014 at 11:29 am

    Hi Barbie,
    I am sure I’ve seen your picture commenting on other blogs, but never made it over to your place. I LOVE your Blog title and header photo!!! (fellow coffee fan!) So glad you joined us at #TheLoft today and I look forward to our hangout! Prayed for you as you embark on the homeschooling journey. I homeschooled the early years with my two and loved it. Then again my daughter’s junior year of HS. MUCH harder, but grace prevailed! The time we have with our kids is precious every age.

    What kind of painting do you do? Do you have photos?

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    Stephanie @ CrayonMarks&TigerStripes
    August 5, 2014 at 2:57 pm

    Hi Barbie! As a coffee lover and a Christ follower, I have to say I just LOVE the name of your blog!

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    Kimberly
    August 7, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    🙂 So glad you joined in the link-up. Your blog is beautiful for sure, but what is especially beautiful is what you offer up here – heaping helpings of Jesus from your humble heart. Much love to you, beautiful woman of God!

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    Jo
    August 9, 2014 at 12:39 pm

    Hi Barb,
    I’m JO and a born-again sinner saved by His grace! Married 33 yr’s and we are now empty nesters.
    Since 2004 I’ve had an online women’s outreach ministry and my online outreach site at this time is under
    “M” Words and the Christian Woman. http://www.mwordsandthechristianwoman.com
    Also have “Simply Sharing and Serving” online.
    I love teaching women’s ministry, working with Child Evangelism Ministry and as online ministry/evangelism worker.
    Only what is done for Christ will last!
    So nice to meet up with another sister in Christ. Look forward to reading through your site!
    JO

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    Ingrid Lochamire
    October 13, 2014 at 10:41 am

    I have been enjoying your thought-provoking posts, Barbie, thanks to the 31 Dayers. I’m delighted to have found you and your beautiful space. God bless you in your season of rest and restoration!

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      Barbie
      October 13, 2014 at 8:17 pm

      Thank you so much Ingrid! Blessings!

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