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Clear Away The Clutter — 39 Comments

  1. me too my friend, me too. i have found clutter and mess to pile up when i am overwhelmed with other areas of life – it happens every single pregnancy and then i have to try to dig out after the baby is born. i have also had the opposite problem – when life circumstances seem out of my control i squeeze tightly to the control of my house and start barking orders and freaking out about the little thing out of place. i think either extremes signal something is not quite right in the trust relationship with the Lord. i, too, am asking the Lord to search my heart and help me find the places i need His extra grace to overcome.

  2. Barbie, I hopped on over here from Wanda’s blog. This was a great post. Very close to home. During a period of my life, I was a hoarder. And the clutter was indeed overwhelming. It affected everything – including my mood and outlook on life. Yes, I had work to do in my home, and God had work to do in my heart. Both were very difficult.

    But, de-cluttering is necessary for life survival – and necessary for the spirit to soar!

    GOD BLESS!

  3. Barbie, I love how you tied clutter of the home to clutter of the heart. I have really been so focused lately on the clutter in my head…. which I suppose transcends then to the heart. I want to learn to turn off all the noise and create more true QUIET time.

  4. wow, I can so relate! Yikes…I also have clutter in piles!
    I’m going to set the timer and tackle one draw, one desk, one table!

    Nice to meet you!
    I’m visiting from Wanda
    😀

  5. I can relate on so many levels. A few years ago, I asked God to remove the clutter in my heart, and He began the process…kind of painful but also freeing…praying God continues to bless you as you journey closer to His heart, dear Barbie 🙂 Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, my friend…you bless us.

  6. Well, I am an organizational freak and love, love keeping my “ducks in a row” so to speak. But, I think all of us can struggle with a “cluttered heart” from time to time, but thankfully, He can take our cluttered and give us peace. I hope He does that for you very soon! Hugs)))))

  7. Barbie, this post has me in tears. Because I know I really really just got blessed by it. I have cleaned out a lot of clutter in my life, both externally and internally. Your writing is one of my absolute favorites.

  8. The condition of my heart is always evident by my house, checkbook, and eating. When my house is tidy, and I can recite my checkbook balance (without receipts in my wallet), and I don’t crave bad food – that’s whae I am most in the Spirit. I wish I could come over to your house; I love to clean and organize other people’s stuff! xo

    • Oh Jenni, I would love to have you over for coffee, no cleaning necessary. One day over the summer I was so overwhelmed that a girlfriend had to come sit with me and help me clean out my stuff.

  9. It’s weird, but I do like to organize and feel great after I do it, but I have the problem with keeping up with it. I’m not good at maintaining…pretty much anything. I wonder what that says about my heart. I have always been a good starter, but never a good finisher. *sigh*

    Thanks for this post!

    • Oh me too! I start things well, with good intentions, but something fizzles out before the finish line. Praying I can stay focused to keep on task. Have a beautiful weekend.

  10. I used to be buried in it! I wrote about my clutter problem in my book, So You’re Not Wonder Woman. Thank God, I now abhor clutter and really enjoy organizing. My passion for organizing and my six kids are fairly incompatible though. LOL Now heart clutter is another issue. I want to be just as passionate about decluttering the yucky stuff there.

  11. Oh friend. Clutter can definitely make someone like me feel overwhelmed. Even if it means throwing away stuff that I would probably regret not having someday — I have to declutter. My closets are a mess though and are often shocking when people see behind the closed doors. Not that my house is spotless by ANY means. I often have stacks behind closed doors — just waiting for me to go through them. Our office is one of the hidden spaces. Yikes.

    I pray God will show you and me too if there are piles of clutter within our hearts that need to be removed.

    Love,
    Beth

  12. I have been pondering these truths too, Barbie. Oh the need for grace looms large for every second of our journey…if we are to face these things…this clutter that seeks to crowd out our good God. May we win the battle, by faith through His grace and faithfulness…Love an hugs, Dawn

  13. Oh, so so true! When my heart is cluttered, it effects all the areas of my life. I can relate to this! Thanks for pointing to the One who clears all the clutter in our heart and soul!

  14. What a perfect post for this time of year (and always!) I find the most clutter in my head…I’ve had to really learn to just be Still. Life is waaaaay too fast these days and taking time to get rid of the clutter is the only way to slow it down for me. God bless!

  15. Hi Barbie,
    Your new “look” is so inviting! Love the header! 🙂

    This post hits home for me too. I have been working on de-cluttering our home for years…it seems…and yet, I put more stuff up in the attic yesterday (oh.my.goodness) and it occurred to me that, yes, we are taking bunches to Goodwill and giving a lot away, but we still have a lot we could part with. I’m wondering now what I’m holding on to up there and why? Spring will be a time of physically cleaning out, while the next several months will be focused (for me) on why I am holding on to “stuff”. I am going to pray that the Lord will show me what I need to part with emotionally and spiritually. I realized too that I am probably grooming our girls to do this same thing and I don’t want that for them.
    Great post Barbie! Thank you for sharing your heart. 🙂

    • I seem to give throughout the year to Big Brothers Big SIsters (they send a truck to our neighborhood about every 6-8 weeks) and I STILL have tons of clutter. My husband is worse than I am…I think if I lived by myself, it wouldn’t be as bad. My house would not be pristine, that’s for sure, but it would be better. Two pack rats in a tiny house makes for a messy life.

      • Leann, I try to hit the trucks when they come around, but the house can be in such a state of chaos that it’s hard to find what to donate, let alone what to toss. And for me, it’s not so much the cleaning out, but the organization of what is left in the home, those things I need. You should take a peek inside my fridge. Oh my!

  16. Our recent move helped us declutter, but now I’m expressing my creative side by painting the interior walls of our home. Perfectionism is a terrible character trait to have when your gifts are not painting. Lol! There are many days I wish I could clear perfectionism from my heart. It can be a heavy burden to carry.

    • Barbie- I am the complete opposite of you in this area… I am a organizational freak. But, I think that has its cons too, because I know there are times I throw stuff out that I need to deal with… including spiritual things. (Rosann speaks to my heat on perfectionism, hence putting my reply here.) I do love how you are so real here, every time real.

      • Oh how I wish I was a little bit more organizational minded. Perhaps one day. Thank you for your encouragement. I do strive to be real, it’s the only way I know how to be.

    • Rosann, I use to be much more of a perfectionist, although I still thing there is residue there. When we moved, I did get rid of a lot of things, but can I say there are boxes in my garage that haven’t been opened since they were packed for the move? And as a painter, I am so a perfectionist! Thankfully my art is done best with my fingers!

  17. Oh my Barbie, how well I can relate to this. As I looked across the little piles of stuff in my living room yesterday, I quietly pondered why it is I can’t seem to keep the clutter in better control. And silent whispered a prayer asking God to help me see the real issue behind it. Because I didn’t always have this problem.

    • I noticed my clutter getting out of control when I hit menopause, about 6 years ago. Dealing with a little bit of depression, due to life changes, makes matters even worse. Praying He will helps us both to see what we need to see to be able to get on top of the mess!

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